For reasons of my liking for English history I choase as my first ship model the kit of HM Bark Endeavour by Jotica/Caldercraft, a UK made kit.
I was not a ship modeller nor di I know much about sailing ship terminology before I began. Firstly the Caldercraft drawings are excellent, and the instruction booklet illustrates and lists all of the parts, so that you know what you have. Then they take you through the order of assembly in the same order as the drawings are numbered. As a model engineer, you can see what I usually make in my picture, I found the kit drawings to be self explanatory and logical.
The only other aids I had were a good and comprhensive set of tools as listed in the Instructions, and an additional book that I purchased was on the subject of Warship Rigging which proved helpful in understanding the functio nof each rope, but not essential to completing the model as the drawings really did suffice.
Thus in my judgement a Caldercraft Kit would be a good start and their kits run form a small two masted vessel to larger and more complex models with three or even four masts. I would recommend begining with a simpler and smaller model, since it will be completed quickly and raise your enthusiasm. Starting with a larger vessel is fine but keeping the constuction going, especially the masts, yards and rigging is a lengthy process and one's enthusiasm could droop a little with a large vessel. Good luck in you choice and use the help of members on this forum if you need, just ask.
You are joining a lovely hobby, particularly suited to the long winter evenings. Best wishes Derek Payne.