. . . and the thing is how to duplicate this color - I know you can play around with colors such as White, Black, and some other Grays by mixing, or you can buy a Gray color already mixed. However, achieving the "look" of what seems like a "washed worn" look will take a little experimentation.
If anyone can duplicate that, I am surely interested.
If you laid down (painted) the surface with just a gray tone paint, it will look just like that; wood that has been painted flat. Therefore, my thought would lean more toward a "stain".
Any other thoughts ?