I cannot reply in one sentence.
The feed rate and depth of passes depend on material, bit diameter, bit length and spindle speed. In the internet some tables can be found with recommendations on these parameters or not-to-exceed parameters, but this helps only to some extent. Then it all depends on the mill table rigidity, performance of the step-motors and their maximum speed, the willing of you to go easy or not on the spindle bearings, the willing of you on how many bits you want to break.... That's a whole universe.
I have about 20 of different bits with different diameters and lengths, and that's only for flat end mill bits, I'm not touching other types of bits yet. So with every bit I choose, the parameters will be different. The best thing is to find a table in the Internet with general recommendations. Mine is in Russian so it will be useless to you.
The longer is the bit, the smaller is feedrate and depth per pass
the lower is the feedrate, the lower is the spindle speed or vice versa
the distance between passes depend on the bit diameter and is usually no more than 50-70%
Also depth of cut and distance between passes may be reduced if you desire a smoother surface...
And so on